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07.08.25
Blog #4— Why I love Forced Femme
& Why you may too.
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Gender play in kink is fun & Liberating.
I force femme a lot .. A LOT of people. It’s so interesting how my cis male clients love it, & my trans femme AND trans masc clients love it too.
It’s a beautiful thing that it feels erotic and fun no matter what, you can always be MORE of a femme bimbo slut. Kink is a fun & theatrical way to process emotions/feelings about gender. Whether it’s being an object & not having a gender, or being a fun abstract exaggerated version of a fuck toy.
Forced femme is ultimately playing in conversation with misogyny & flipping it on its head. We all live in a world where women are hyper sexualized, objectified, fetishized. Being a femme fuck doll wouldn’t be as hot or liberating or humiliating or fun if the world didn’t hyper sexualize women.
Forced femme is also fun because in relation to my sub my gender also morphes too. I often then playing the fantasy role of being the Daddy or John or Husband or the Boss - w/ my “male” entitlement & horny cock on- I’m also playing w/ misogyny & gender.
I also think it’s hot when my male subs know I like femmes & dykes - so they want me to fuck them like I fuck my girlfriends. It’s sexually charging to feel like you are the object of someone’s desire.
Everyone wants to feel sexually desired & accepted.
& I love making my subs FEEL like sex objects. & morphing them into my perfect human pocket pussies. Actual gender aside - to me, you’re always a hole & always a good nasty girl. 💋
I write more about forced femme & what it means for us to to play with gender (& misogyny) & personal responsibility (especially for cis men) in a blog I wrote back in 2021. Read HERE.
Kink often has to do w/ us confronting our unconscious fears / traumas / desires. & toxic masculinity is so policed and rigid- so forced femme can feel like freedom. Maybe you’ve spent your whole life trying not to be perceived as a “sissy” so now it’s relieving. Or you’re trans masc, and you’ve been trying to be perceived as masculine, & you miss these feminine sides. Or maybe forced femme even affirms your gender - and you want to always be & feel AS FEMME as possible. (We loveeee).
And YET. Sex & kink are just fun. & sex can just be pleasure for pleasure sake. We don’t have to have a reason to like kinks or justify them or have trauma or over think them. I’m just a sex nerd with two psychology degrees who thinks gender & kink are very interesting. But if it makes you happy that’s all that matters!
Are you ready to give forced feminization a try? Apply HERE.
©MistrixSunmi 2025
©MistrixSunmi 2025