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02.04.26
Blog #31— My Pleasure First
Always - here is why.
Mistress’ Pleasure always comes first.
This is true- as I only engage in kinks I genuinely enjoy. I know this is my job & I feel like the luckiest person ever to make this thing I love - sustainable full time 💋
But what do I MEAN when I say my pleasure comes first? I’ve had subs in the past be hesitant to request pegging because they worry - that I’m only doing it for their pleasure. & my response to that is this:
Don’t project onto me. You think pegging is a chore because someone else in your past told you that, or you’re a bottom who thinks topping is hard work & you can’t wrap your mind around why a woman would like it. I WILL MAKE MYSELF VERY CLEAR.
I am a true Dominant Top - in every aspect both personally and professionally. Beating, pegging, edging, hypnot!zing, all of that - pleases ME to enact onto MY subs. For my subs financial devotion, their worship, their dedication and submission to me - all of that feeds the dynamic. & it energizes me when we play.
My own psychology: I have always had a very high sex drive. A high sadistic drive. A high need for novelty and excitement in my life. I have a very high energy - and conducting scenes, role plays, very long complicated and psychologically complex scenes actually fill my cup - that intense focus and flow state I enter when I dominate is something I don’t just want - but something I NEED.
I get off - sexually - by emasculating and dominating my submissives. I love using my strap on cock as one of MANY ways I enjoy putting my submissives into their PLACE below me. I love how I can use my cock to manipulate and humiliate and pleasure my submissives - I’m the kind of woman who needs TOTAL sexual control of my submissives. I’m a control freak, what can I say. I’ve been humping since I was very young - it’s always been my favorite way to feel pleasure - so do NOT insult me by assuming I am strap on fucking someone out of service to their pleasure - FUCK THAT. Never. It’s always for me. Or else I wouldn’t do this.
When my subs step into my dungeon - I respect their limits and their desires and their medical needs - and with those terms - every single detail is controlled to my liking. That’s my way or the highway.
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©MistrixSunmi 2026
©MistrixSunmi 2026